Words Unsaid...Random Thoughts.. Memories and Experiences

I guess they say right …atleast if not 100% but then ya it works for most of the times …. when the start of the day is good …whole day is good …but when its bad … hmm things aren’t that nice … :( … If I start my day with some enthu the enthu is carried thru out the day n its true the other way round too …. Has this got to do something with our thinking too ??? could be … coz whenever we have some kind of positive thoughts we are cheerful …. And full of life But then........ when something is not right u feel bad and u lose interest …n also all the enthu goes down the drain …. So cud be that when something goes wrong at the start of the day we just get a negative feeling … and so we carry that along with us the whole day … May b if we forget it and carry a good feeling with us …that day might turn out to be good !! Lemme try that today ..... :)

Friend ..... This word carries a lot of weightage ... A kind of complicated role to play ..... So many hidden reponsibilities ...so much fun ... so many goodie gooodie things that come with it ... I just realised a few more things that are assoicated with this Role ... u cud say its a responsibility .... ya it is ... maintain confidentiality of the revealed things ... n never discuss it with anyone else ........ we say smthings to our nearest n dearst friends only with an intention to lighten our hearts .... may b 90% of the times all a friend has to do is just say a few words of sympathy and nothing more required.... u feel so good by just telling it to them ,....may b some times all the friend can do is keep quite ... no words said ... but u feel so good .... as if half the problem is solved !! but then ..... some times .... some things get messed up when the inner most feelings of ur heart are revealed to soem third person .. by ur friend ... :( that person might b as close as u...

Loong long time since i blogged !! Hmm may be people say it right !! if u dont manage ur time then u rnt fit for anything .... guess thats what happened with me too ! :(tied up with work ...unable to balance work life ... work took over my private life ... :( so almost 20 hours ina day spent with it ... why do i do this ? is it only me who's facing it or there are some people like me ? I too feel like doing what i like ...just laze around ...sit on the window side enjoying the breeze and sipping hot coffee .. but .......... when will i do it ? hmm may b i need to be organised !! but i dont like being too organised also :P guess its the problem with my thinking and nothing to do with the time sense and all that !!! :)

Silence .................... " A man is known by the silence he keeps. " --Oliver Herford, American author (1863-1935) " True friendship comes when silence between two people is comfortable . "--Dave Tyson Gentry Woow silence has so much significance !! may b i never realised untill recently !! may be coz I had always been hearing that we shud speak up .....we shudnt keep quite .... if we remain silent they wud pull us down etc etc ......... but may b now i feel that silence can speak more than words .... It can express any kind of a emotion ..... It cud be expressing ur diagreement to something whats said .... or wildness to what's happening ..... or disappointment in job hunting ..... or ur thankfulness towards a friend for being there with u !! Is it true that u feel comfortable with a person when the silence between the two is comfortable ? .... hmmmmmmmm... lemme think over ... n i guess thats right .... when u dont feel comfortable with silence then i gu...

How many times do we ask this question !! Everytime something goes wrong the first thing what comes out of our mouth is why me ! ... i used to use this a lot.... when in school .. when i used to get some scolding i used to ask myself why of all the people i got scoldings ? ... then when in college got some bad marks in labs .. again why me ?... when had to hear some comments from my relatives again why me ! But......................... I dont ever remember asking myself this question when ..... i got the highest marks ... or when i won some competition ... or when i meet nice sweet people ... nor when i get the best of people around as my friends ... or when i get a job in one of the Best firms !!.. or when i hear some of the best compliments about myself :) why do i do this ? ... No replies coming out from me !!

I am on my way to meet some of my dearest n sweetest friends ... woo i met them ... its such a nice n sweet feeling to be with ur dear ones ... we chatted spoke laughed ate drank cried screamed .... this went on .. i was the most happiest person ... i felt on top of the world ... was feeling so light after pouring out my heart to them n hearing some nice words from them which made me think that after all its not all that bad !! n then after all this it was time for me to depart ... cud hear some byes .. .n now here i am all alone ... felt as if everything happened in a dream ... time just flies ... just a moment before i was the most happiest person with so many people around ... n now just a moment later all are gone an am all alone with no one around !! Guess life is like that ... one moment it gives u thousands of reasons to smile and the very next moment u feel that no one else would be in a worser condition that urs ...... but .... then ...... may b coz of these only we know t...

woh din bhi kya the jab hum duniya ke dukh dard se waakif na the ... hum aur humaari duniya mein hi hum log khush the .... kisi cheeze ki parwaah na thi ... parwaah thi tho bas apne marks ki ...woh bhi teacher aur papa mummy ke dar se ...warna tho uski bhi chintha na thi ....Those were probably the best days of my life ... thats the school life ... i did my schooling in a small place jo nature ki godhi mein tha .... and we were unaware of urbanism .... we werent instersted in theatres as there were no theatres in our place ... our time pass was to go for a walk or to go n play with friends ...tv wasnt the priority at all ....we 6 friends used to walk n walk for about a couple of kmts on a road which wud lead to the dam .... the road was just awsome with trees on both sides adn absolute silence ... the only noise wud be the birds chiring and the wind blowing thru the leaves ... we wud chat scream laugh and then sometimes get emotional .... then try to get back home before its dark ... t...