Words Unsaid...Random Thoughts.. Memories and Experiences

Silence .................... " A man is known by the silence he keeps. " --Oliver Herford, American author (1863-1935) " True friendship comes when silence between two people is comfortable . "--Dave Tyson Gentry Woow silence has so much significance !! may b i never realised untill recently !! may be coz I had always been hearing that we shud speak up .....we shudnt keep quite .... if we remain silent they wud pull us down etc etc ......... but may b now i feel that silence can speak more than words .... It can express any kind of a emotion ..... It cud be expressing ur diagreement to something whats said .... or wildness to what's happening ..... or disappointment in job hunting ..... or ur thankfulness towards a friend for being there with u !! Is it true that u feel comfortable with a person when the silence between the two is comfortable ? .... hmmmmmmmm... lemme think over ... n i guess thats right .... when u dont feel comfortable with silence then i gu

How many times do we ask this question !! Everytime something goes wrong the first thing what comes out of our mouth is why me ! ... i used to use this a lot.... when in school .. when i used to get some scolding i used to ask myself why of all the people i got scoldings ? ... then when in college got some bad marks in labs .. again why me ?... when had to hear some comments from my relatives again why me ! But......................... I dont ever remember asking myself this question when ..... i got the highest marks ... or when i won some competition ... or when i meet nice sweet people ... nor when i get the best of people around as my friends ... or when i get a job in one of the Best firms !!.. or when i hear some of the best compliments about myself :) why do i do this ? ... No replies coming out from me !!

I am on my way to meet some of my dearest n sweetest friends ... woo i met them ... its such a nice n sweet feeling to be with ur dear ones ... we chatted spoke laughed ate drank cried screamed .... this went on .. i was the most happiest person ... i felt on top of the world ... was feeling so light after pouring out my heart to them n hearing some nice words from them which made me think that after all its not all that bad !! n then after all this it was time for me to depart ... cud hear some byes .. .n now here i am all alone ... felt as if everything happened in a dream ... time just flies ... just a moment before i was the most happiest person with so many people around ... n now just a moment later all are gone an am all alone with no one around !! Guess life is like that ... one moment it gives u thousands of reasons to smile and the very next moment u feel that no one else would be in a worser condition that urs ...... but .... then ...... may b coz of these only we know t

woh din bhi kya the jab hum duniya ke dukh dard se waakif na the ... hum aur humaari duniya mein hi hum log khush the .... kisi cheeze ki parwaah na thi ... parwaah thi tho bas apne marks ki ...woh bhi teacher aur papa mummy ke dar se ...warna tho uski bhi chintha na thi ....Those were probably the best days of my life ... thats the school life ... i did my schooling in a small place jo nature ki godhi mein tha .... and we were unaware of urbanism .... we werent instersted in theatres as there were no theatres in our place ... our time pass was to go for a walk or to go n play with friends ...tv wasnt the priority at all ....we 6 friends used to walk n walk for about a couple of kmts on a road which wud lead to the dam .... the road was just awsome with trees on both sides adn absolute silence ... the only noise wud be the birds chiring and the wind blowing thru the leaves ... we wud chat scream laugh and then sometimes get emotional .... then try to get back home before its dark ... t

In our busy schedule we forget to enjoy the little pleasures of life … there are so many things which we forget to notice … we keep running behind things which might not give us even 10% happiness what we get from things which we can never buy with money !! just see the smile on the face of a kid when u get a chocolate … watch the kitten playing with a marble … the kids playing with water … calf running around in the field …having hot hot bhutta and walking on a drizzling day … long walks with a lovely friend with never ending talks accompanied .. building sand castles in beach … enjoying the sunset in the sea shore …collecting shells on sea shore … meeting an old friend over coffee … enjoying the coffee watching the pouring rain .. Happiness on the face of the lady of the house when u compliment her for the dishes she cooked … etc etc … Do we actually spend time with our loved ones ?? do we get to enjoy the small pleasures in life ? I guess we have forgotten how to enjoy the

Why is it soo difficult to express how u feel … its soo complicated to put into words about ur feelings !! might be about anything !! for example how happy u felt when u met some one … or how … bla bla u felt when u saw a rotten rat … or how sad u felt when some on went away … or even how excited and thrilled u were when u went for an outing !! why is it so ? and y is it that sometimes we want to tell so many things but words just don’t come out … and sometimes we don’t have anything to tell but still we blabbering so much !! hmm interesting isn’t it ? u want to tell it u cant tell … u tell something which is not at all close to what u feel … u don’t find the right words and find urself so lost .. . is it so difficult to express what u feel ?? and also whom u feel like telling is also another thing !! u wont feel like telling anything to some ..and 24 hrs in a day aren’t enough to tell things to some of ur dear ones !! hmm … may be that’s why some ppl don’t dare to express themselves a