Words Unsaid...Random Thoughts.. Memories and Experiences

Coffee ...the word itself gives a refreshing feeling ... probably all coffee lovers feel the same !! I do agree with the Coffee Day quote ... "lots of things can happen over a coffee" .... When we say "Lets meet up for coffee" or "lets talk it over at coffee" it just means that lets have a nice chat when we meet up ... generally an invitation for coffee indiates we want to have a good chat with the other person ....when 2 friends sit over coffee they can go on and on with non stop talks about the happenings in their life ... meeting up for Coffee could be for apologising for something ..solving some problem ... or just some general gupshups ... share some happy moments ... or sometimes just sit silent and feel each others company !! isnt it amazing when u think how things can change by meeting over coffee? may b some misunderstandings will b cleared or may be some bonds get strengthened ... some problems soved .. ur feelings get revealed ... hmm ... etc et

Someone imitating the other … or may b some one trying to talk like someone ..behave like someone … or fake that they like something when they actually hate that !!Why do people try to ape other people ? or why do they try to fake? Is it so difficult to be one self ?? I don’t think so … its kind of easy ..but only thing is we cant please others if we go in our own way…but then when we ourselves are not happy then whats the need to keep someone happy if that person is some third person ??? Are we happy when we aren’t ourselves?? Probably if we look at the momentary happiness then may b we would be happy but then … long term I don’t think so… Or…. may b if the person concerned is someone very dear to us then its ok faking to keep that person happy … again a nother concern is if the person is dear to us and soo close to us then that person would never expect us to fake … isn’t it ?? Then why do we fake ourselves ? Some of the reasons which I thought of for faking ourselves are: just to sh