Be Urself !!

Someone imitating the other … or may b some one trying to talk like someone ..behave like someone … or fake that they like something when they actually hate that !!Why do people try to ape other people ? or why do they try to fake?

Is it so difficult to be one self ??

I don’t think so … its kind of easy ..but only thing is we cant please others if we go in our own way…but then when we ourselves are not happy then whats the need to keep someone happy if that person is some third person ???
Are we happy when we aren’t ourselves?? Probably if we look at the momentary happiness then may b we would be happy but then … long term I don’t think so…

Or…. may b if the person concerned is someone very dear to us then its ok faking to keep that person happy … again a nother concern is if the person is dear to us and soo close to us then that person would never expect us to fake … isn’t it ??

Then why do we fake ourselves ?

Some of the reasons which I thought of for faking ourselves are:
just to show a different image of ourself to the world so that we get some appreciation
try to prove that u are just like ur ideal man/woman
don’t want to get into any argument/controversy
try to please others with the reply of their choice
scared to show ur true self as u feel inferior about urself !!

hmmm … and many more like this …………..

but is it worth the effort??
I don’t think so …

Be urself …

Comments

Phil said…
yeah.. as u said 'coffee' is magical. have a look at one of my previous posts on coffee http://jusjotted.blogspot.com/2005/12/so-coming-for-coffee.html
jyo82 said…
logged in a comment inw rong window !! :)

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