Words Unsaid...Random Thoughts.. Memories and Experiences

mere khayal mein dosti ek aisa rishta jo har rishtey se nirala hai...friendship plays an important role in everyone's life .... frineds do manage to infulence our lives... some in positive way and some in negetive way too ... but then tehy do have a strong influence on our lives, .... they give a helping hand when in need ... listen to u patiently when u have stories to tell ... have fun with u when u are in a mood for fun ... share the food u want to try out though it wud be bad !! and also compliment u when u least expect :) u be urself with them .... no barriers n no hesitation toooo ... u can just tell out whatever u feel like .... u get some feed back too as to what can be done regarding that .... u can rely upon them any time of the day ... jitna bhi bolo utna kam hai actually ... waise dekhne jao tho they are far far better than many of ur relatives who pretend to be close to u when u r happy n run away when u need them or ask 4 some help .....Friendship lives forever ......

City life .... most of them feel that its a prestige to stay in the cities !! when i was young i used to stay in a colony ..this was in the middle of the jungle with aorund 200-250 houses ...the whole place was like a well knit family ... most of them knew most of the people and the happenings in theire lives ... lots of get togethers wud be happening ,.. i still remember my mom and aunties of the colony excahnging the dishes what they prepare .... the share whatever special they have prepared with atleast a couple of them ... then we kids playing together with no fear of getting run over by speeding vehicles ... sit out in the cool breeze whenever there wud b power cuts ... (which used to be atleast half an hour a day ) ..... try to make a garden in the smallest available space in the back yard .... wait for the flower to bloom in the plant we planted .... enjoy each and eevry festival with full enthusiasm irrespective of the region we wud be from ....etc etc ... then the time started

Howz it Staying without ur dear ones around!! · Coffee without sugar · Cake without sugar n icing · Pheeka dal · Newspaper without interesting articles · A bland greeting without colors…. · Black n white tv pe chitrahaar · Chats that aren’t chatpati · Ekta kapoors soaps without ladies in jhig mig sarees and accessories · Bollywood films without heroin telling senti dialogues · Lonely puppy separated from its offsprings · Soggy chips · Starless Sky on a clear night · Weekend party without music !! Etc etc

"Life is like having a cup of tea. You sit by the side of the window, lift the cup and take a careless sip, only to realize, somebody forgot to put the sugar. Too lazy to go for it you somehow struggle through the sugarless cup....till you discover undissolved sugar crystal sitting at the bottom... ---That's LIFE " How true !!!

Thoughts to ponder .... How many times have we felt that we are good for nothing ... or may be we are useless ... we are a waste ... dharti pe bhoj etc etc .. The count will be almost equal to the number of stars in the sky cloudless nite.. Y is that we feel down at times ... is it coz we feel guilty that we haven't done our best though we had the ability to do or is it that we are not keeping the expectations of others or is it that we are not satisfied with ourselves !!...sigh .. there are so many reasons for us to feel down !! It all depends on our priorities !! but then such thoughts can be so disastrous at times ,...... lease harm done is mental disturbance ... with a lot of inferiority complex added to the previously existing ones .... n the maximum harm is end of life :( ... the in between depth of impact of these thoughts include bad very very bad thoughts ...withdrawing oneself from everything ...hesiatate to publicise ... hate to discuss anything about self .. drift away

Love :)

Thinks that make u go eeeeeks and iiiiiisssssssssshhhhhhh... A flying cockroach A slimy worm creeking noise when a metal chair is pulled Open deep wound ... Some one serving food with dirty hands Travelling in a crowded bus with no space to breathe Ur favourite eatable falling down when u wanted to have the first bite muddy water splashed by a vehicle on ur white dress Rotten tomato power failure when ur watching ur fav show or listening to ur fav song totally messed up bed when u r feeling veryyy tired and sleepy getting a worm in ur food etc etc ,....many more got left out :D

People people ........there are so many varieties of ppl in this world .. soooooooooo many ... infact each one is diff that the other !!-some people are so self centered that they cant c anyone else -some people are just the opposite .. they dont see into their homes instead keep sneaking into people's matters...-some others are happy when others make progree ... goodie goodie types -some try to pull people down when they make some progress though that wont affect them in anyway !!-few people do a little good and a little bad to others .. :)-some run behind money ..some behind fame ..some after people .. few after peace .. etc etc May be coz of the diff varities of ppl only teh world is such an interesting place to stay in :D

world's getting closer or are we drifting away from each other ? I was just wondering whether the world is getting more close radn more closely knit coz of the modern communication or are we actually drifting awaay from each other coz of this modernisation? in the sense we may have many many means to communicate with our dear ones but then do we actually feel close to them ? do we have time for them ? or have we involved ourselves too much into our work ... ?? hmm donno what we are up to !! whole world seems to be moving so fast !!

Bus mein ek din .. was travelling in a local bus when this incident happened !! had to travel for an hour or so ... a very old man got into the bus in the middle ... to his luck there was an empty seat where he cud sit.. he looked pretty old with lot of wrinkles on his face and his dhoti and muddy shirt indicated that he was from a village ... after a couple of stops teh bus got crowded and then there was no place for the passengers to stand too...but the greedy bus waala was pushing in how many ever ppl he cud !! in one of the stops a young married lady got into the bus ... she too looked from the rural area ..she was having a baby in her hand ... no one in the bus including me got up to give her place to sit ... when the bus started the lady was finding it difficult to handle the baby ...immediately the old man( who himself cudnt stand ) got up n gave her the seat .. seeing this i felt ashamed ... was feeling sooo guilty ... but then i was so dead tired after a loooooooong working da

" Work like you don't need the money, love like you've never been hurt and dance like no one is watching. " One of my favourite quotes (though i dont agree to the first part :D ) ... the rest two are good ,,, especially the last one ...how true it is ...most of us feel so conscious when some one is around when we are dancing ... when we are alone we dont mind making twists and turns ... but when some ones around we feel so concsious !! but then ya dancing is a way to express urself !! cud be sadness or joys !! Music is the first pre req required ... though !! it need not be elegant or according to the music or of some category ... all u need to do is tap ur foot and move ur hands and some twists !!

Everyone can make the difference : I once heard a story about a gy who was walking along the sea shore and was throwing awy the start fish which were along the shore into the water again. There comes another man and asks him "how many will u throw .. there are so many lying ..it wont make much of a differnce" ... then teh frist guy picks up another star fish and tells " i made a difference to this !! " ... This story kind of made me think in every action i do !! for eg .. when i waste water i think may be me saving a pot of water will make some diff ..me not wasting food makes a diff to someone etc etc !! may be its true too !! if we all think that we can make some diff and we keep doing out part then there will b some diff ..some good thing done somewhere !! :) just a thought !! when i feed any stray animal i feel that it will be satisfied atleast for next few hours ... when i give some extra money to a road side vendor i feel may be she/he will feel happy ...et