Words Unsaid...Random Thoughts.. Memories and Experiences

When Harry Met Sally "I love that you get cold when it's seventy degrees out. I love that it takes you an hour and a half to order a sandwich. I love that you get a little crinkle above your nose when you're looking at me like I'm nuts. I love that after I spend a day with you I can still smell your perfume on my clothes, and I love that you are the last person I want to talk to before I go to sleep at night. And it's not because I'm lonely, and it's not because it's New Year's Eve. I came here tonight because when you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible." Notting Hill "I am just a girl standing in front of a boy asking him to love her." "Happiness isn't happiness without a violin-playing goat." Forest Gump: My Mama always said, 'Life was like a box of chocolates; you never know what you're gonna get.' When Harry Met Sally...

To be surrounded by friends ... have a nice chat ..long hours ... get togethers ... laughs ..discussions... suggestions ... etc etc To get a call unexpectedly from someone whom u wud love to talk ..... Sleep well .... have a peaceful sleep without horrbile dreamz or any disturbances and then when u wake up in morning ... get to know that u can sleep for 2 more hours .... Rains ... get drenched ... play in water ... feels good If u r in foul mood or angry or irritated ...then also it helps ...cooling u down Have A pet who would be with u all the time .. and whom u can cuddle with .. Sigh ..wish i cud have one ... may be some time ... Wake up and a nice cup of coffee or chai comes to ur hand ... and u can enjoy that cup of coffee or chai taking ur own sweet time .. dont hv to hurry up When u get some lovely flowers ... unexpectadly... Ofcourse if u get them often then it becomes a routine ... n Many more to be added to the list shall add them when i find time ......

"I love walking in the rain, 'cause then no-one knows I'm crying"

No Occasssion ... No reason to celebrate .... Nothing good happening ... My be thats y i need to Cheer up myself ... with something ... So here it is ..cheers to me ....

one of the good movies i watched ... off late ... 3 characters ...each one a kind of his own ... 1st one : takes the whole blame on him whether he has done it or not ... feels too guilty and feels that only when he takes punishment .. its like "prayashchit" for him ... 2nd one : feels that he has not done anything wrong and is cnfident that he wud be saved as truth always wins ... he feels he is walking in right path ..so nothing can go wrong with him .... 3rd one : inspite of doing mistakes feeels there is always a escape route ... and never loses hope ... eternal optimistic ... that somehow he wud escape ... 3 totally diff characters ... intersting ...

I read a story recently about ..a man who got locked in a cold storage room ... he tried reaching people ..yelled cried made noises but then no one came ... as the cold storage was away from normal working zone ... Also it was the weekend and so ... no one wud be around ... he tried all he could to draw attention of people present if any ..but nothing happened .. he gave up then he sat thinking about his death ... he started feeling cold ...he wrote on the walls .. about his state ... he started feeling more cold ..he wrote that too he started shivering ... every moment he kept feeling he is nearing to death ... after sometime he felt he is getting frozen and so .. he wudnt be abel to write further ..so he wrote on wall that these cud be his last words ... N then he finaly died ... when the door was opened people found that he was dead ...they all read what he had written ... But u know what the Truth is?? the refrigerating system had broken down a couple of days back and it was not w...

Again i get to meet a new set of people .... Few instances ... about few people .... which i just cant get refrain from mentioning .... Person 1 : Gossip ...gossip.... gossip complain complain complain those are the only 2 things which this person does ... "are yaar woh pata hai ... kitna kaam deta hai" "woh pata hai ..kaisa khana khata hai" "kitna spend karta hai" "baap re aap kitne kanjoos ho" n wants to poke nose in everybodzs affairs ... just cant stand without screaming at this one may be .... Person 2 : Me myself and my work me wud ask u only if i have anything to ask no faaltu talks and all Sorry Am Busy.......... Person 3 : Its all about me ... u dont understand .. what i am going thru .. its soo bad work wise also... outside work ... am basically suffering ... so I go on telling everyone ... my stories so that i get some sympathy .. n sympathy keeps me going ... Also need to take care to see that am in the good books ofright people so d...

Nothing Feels good ... and i donno y ... i think it cud be the place ..but its not ..cos the place is good .. i think it cud be the weather ... but its not ..cos weather keeps changing by the hour but i dont feel good .. i think it cud be the work ... But its not ..cos work ... is fine on its side and keeps me busy through out ... But i just dont feel good about anything ..may be its me ... the reason for me not feeling good is me alone and no one else ... But cant blame myself ..can I???

Kya hota hai ? How do u feel ?? Feel guilty ? conscious ? feel scared ?? Or nothing at all ? I feel that lying in definitely an art …. Some people feel so relaxed even after lying … and don’t feel the guilt nor fear that their lie would be caught !! Sometimes its obvious that they are lying but they still wudnt give up !! how Great cud that be !! isn’t it ?? Amazing ...

Aisa kyon hota hai ki jo bhi chaho woh kabhi milta nahi ??? and jo nahi chahiye uske saath hi mujhe adjust karna padta hai ? Aisa kyon ki jab mein ek cheese ko pasand karne lagti hoon woh mere haath se nikal jaata hai ?? jab mujhe nahi chahiye tab sab cheesein bazaar mein hota hai aur jab mein khareedna chahun kuch bhi nahi hota ...aur mein khaali haath laut thi hoon .... Jab mein kisi cheeze ki hone ka intezaar karti hoon woh kabhi hota nahi ... Aur jab mein yeh sochti hoon ki woh kabhi nahi hoga ...woh ho jaata hai .... Jab bhi baat karna chahu ... koi mere pass nahi hota ya sab bahut busy hote hai Aur jab mein chup rehna chahti hoon aur muh se shabd nahi nikalta tab sab mere aaju baaju hote hai ..aur baat karne ko majboor karte hai ... Ummed rakhne ki jitna koshish karti hoon utni niraasha hota hai ... Par kabhi kabhi jahan ummed nahi hoti us jagah se khushiyan milti hai ... Kabhi kabhi bade bade mod bhi asar nahi karte Par kabhi kabhi choti choti cheezein bhi muskuraahat laati ha...

Both loved Chatting …we cud chat for hours together … Talk talk talk …anytime of the day or nite … about all the topics under the sun … Sometimes … after talking for hours together we wud feel so hungry that we wud eat cereals with chilled milk and a pinch of sugar [Yummy ;)] and then go to sleep …….. We loved having Tea … anytime how much ever quantity …. First thing we checked out for in super market … Both had similar ideas about roaming around … roam … walk ..bus … train .. anything is fine … Adjust karke challenge types … donno the place ? ask around with the locals …Enthu to explore things … in this process had an amazing time roaming around unknown places … Egoistic to the core … feeling can handle it types ….dont need to ask anyone … never checked whats to be done ..whats nice etc etc ..just go on do things what u like that’s all !! “oh me feel like eating Masala Dosa today .. where do we eat .. ?” “Lets just go this area and check we mite just find smthing “ “ok … shud be alri...

Why wud u call someone by somebody else’s name ????? Hey ‘A’..sorry ‘B’…oops ‘C’ …arghhh sorry sorry ‘D’ ….. How many times have u faced this ?? I think I have faced this quite a few times … that too from people … whom I talk to frequently …. Didn’t bother once … but when it repeated with diff people …I was forced to think … So this thought kept lingering in my mind as to why this happens ………. Saasuma calling her bahus name interchangeably ….. Mom calling sons/daughters names ulta-pulta ….. Friends calling one by anothers name in the group …. Etc etc Could be various reasons … U rarely talk to that person [this reason is alrite..as they hardly speak to u so they wud get the name of the person whom they talk to frequently] May be the person whom u r talking to is thinking about the other person … Ur name is very difficult to pronounce [not a valid reason though] Etc etc But then inspite of u talking to someone very often u r called by diff name then how do u feel? Sometimes feels alr...

It rained today … Summer rain !!! Coooled down the weather … Feels nice …. It washed away all the dirt from some roads and got it deposited somewhere else ……….. It was a lovely sight to see the rain drops falling down the window pane … falling on the leaves … Animals curling themselves to a corner so that they don’t get wet …. kids enjoying getting drenched … The noise was music to the ears … Feels good to see people running to reach back homes … Vehicles splashing water … People …trying to avoid water by jumping here and there Color color umbrellas … All in all a good feeling ... but :( i didnt get a chance to get wet in the rain and enjoy it completely nor did i get a chance to sip a cup of hot ginger tea [ofcourse i had the chai from the vending machine though ] as i was forced to sit and work when it was raining ....

We met just 2-3 days before we travelled … First time for both of us …excited plus anxious … Formal talks “ shopping done” … “ which airways ? “ … “anything else we need to take “ .. “do u know anyone there? “ Both of us needed company ..though we didn’t know each other at all … we had to stick to each other … Me thinking … “oh god … how am I gonna adjust with her … why do I end up with Mals all the time … she mite not even talk to me …” She thinking … “ Oh is this the one whom I have to bear …so much of attitude ..looks like my trip is gonna be boring .. che of all the people her ? “ Reached airport … both of us travelling for the We travelled in the same flight … parents waving Byeee byeee to both of us … Checked in … Waiting waiting for the flight …lots of time to go …. Me hungry … ask her ..she too hungry … Yo here’s coffee day … bought a sandwich ..and coffee … “man its soo damn expensive inside the airport” “ya ya “ Flight’s here ..need to get in ... got in ..and we had the seats...

Shopping … hmm sounds good … isn’t it ? Generally we gals go for shopping quite often as compared to guys I guess… now don’t ask me what do we buy … so much … Sometimes we might not buy anything … just go out and have a look and come ..buy it only if we like … Unlike guys who go to one shop buy whatever required ..dont even look towards things which they don’t have in mind to buy or haven’t planned to buy in that session J May be gals are more choosy …is it ? cos I have always noticed that gals wud ask for colors, diff patterns , sizes , etc etc …and then decide on smthing ..and also cud be that guys have a lot of choices when it comes to clothes accessories or anything .. like in clothes gals have salwars ..skirts …kurtas .. frocks …trousers ..sarees …ghagras … etc etc … but guys most of the time … trousers… shorts .. kurtas ..shervanis and may be Dhoti … Guys don’t have to worry about the matching bangles , ear rings … necklace ..shoes etc etc …They can have a universal one …most o...

Serene yet beautiful ...

Hmm ... She filled the whole house with noise ... talking ... yelling .. scolding ..laughing ... Wouldn't like to work but still majbooran would do some of the duties assigned ...with a lots of scoldings to mom if compalined about not being done properly .... Watch all the crap serials from evening 5.30 ... full control over the remote ...wouldn't let anybody come in her way of watching them .... First one to receive all the phone calls ..and then pass it on to the required people .... Make a lot of fuss when something she doesnt like is prepared for lunch ! and suddenly ... she grew up ..and had to married ... Now she is in her husbands palce and her parents ka place is khali khali .... Silence everywhere ... no one to help mother in kitchen ... no one to scold her .. nor can she scold anyone ... no one to pick the phone for them .... No one to command over them for buying things home .... Missing Her ... is all i can hear them feel !!!!!

Could be just enough for one dinner for some ... or a movie show for some ... ... or one visit to the parlor for a few ... For some people it could mean : 3 full meals for 6 in the family + one set of new clothes + some loan repaid + bonus as tiffin in a darshini .. Some more it would be the shopping budget for the wedding ..... Some it could be education kharcha for the whole year .... Some it cud buy medicine for the whole month !

One evening a young woman went alone to walk barefoot by the ocean after the sun had set. She stopped in her path and turned so she could see the footsteps she had left in the sand. But they had already been washed away by the waves. When she turned to continue her walk, she was startled by the presence of an old woman wrapped in a blanket who out of nowhere appeared sitting by a fire, slowly paging through the leaves of a leather covered book. She walked up to the woman and asked. "Where did you come from? I didn't see you here a moment ago. And how did you start this fire so quickly?" Her questions went unanswered but were instead met with a reply in a serene voice, "Sit with me, child. I have something to show you." As the young woman sat down beside the fire, the mysterious stranger handed her the book. She curiously turned the pages one by one and was amazed to discover they contained the story of her whole life from the early days of childhood to the prese...

Guys raise brows when they hear instances where the gals have some demands to marry a guy ... whats wrong in it ? cant they ask what they want ? esp in this 20th century ??? Demand : I want to work ... Response : I earn enough for both ... why do u want to work ? instead sit at home and relax ... all u have to do is cook for me and look after the house ... Comment : This would mean that she has to cook ... take care of laundry .. Bills ... everything related to the house ... Demand : I would like to study further Response : U are already a graduate ... how much more do u want to study ? and what are u going to do after studying so much ? Comment : Means Sorry i dont think its a great idea and my male ego doesnt let me agree to being less educated than u ... Demand : I would like to help my parents ... i am the only daughter Response : That should be fine ... Comment : Means waqt aane pe dekhenge .. and the first thing which comes to the guys' side people's mind when a gal ...

My friend takes me to a new place where i Have never been ... leaves me with another friend telling would be back in a minute ... me and this second friend walking on a busy street ... ... lots of people walking ... i find a lotttttttt of known faces ... many from my past years ... whom i have not seen after my school college days ... i identify each of them ... call them and try to strike a converstation with them ..am all excited ..and happy but then those dont seem to feel the same ..and seemed uninterested ... Mood off ... then i turn back and see Am all alone ..All lost ... donno what to do ... Interpretation : Scraed of being alone .. scared of My people moving away from me ...

Me waiting in train station ..with 2 bags ..train comes ... theres heavy rush and i am pushed into the train ...luggage left back ... Am SHOCKED ... Suddenly a familiar face comes flashing a bright smile from nowhere in the crowd and asks me what happened ..i say about what happened ..and then we both get down in next stop and run back to the place where i left my luggage ... Disappointed :( one bag Missing ... Run search ... look aound ..no use ... Interpretation -------May be am scraed of losing something and so i got a dream like this .... but what is it ? whats my subconscious thinking ? ... lemme think over it :)