Words Unsaid...Random Thoughts.. Memories and Experiences

Staying away from ur dear ones !! Good or bad ? we friends always ahve a discussion , argument on this topic !! may be a nice topic to debate on though !! when friends are apart most of the times they arent in touch with the small small happenings of each others lives ... initially they might try their level best to be up to date bout the happenings but then as time passes both learn to live by themselves !! they dont tell the small small things to the other one as the other one wont be aware of the past incidents about it ... and also when u rnt face to face and are talking to ur friend u generally have so many major thinsg to talk about that u wont get time and also to some extent wont remember to tell the small small incidents cud be good ones or bad ones !! but when u r near to them ... u can meet them often u tell them what all happened that day what u felt what made u ahppy what made u sad and all those ... which cant be expressed to a friend who is far off !! also u wudnt like t...

Is the place we stay an important criteria if we have teh right ppl with us ?.... could be it is but then not when u ahve all ur fav ppl around ... with a good compay i guess any place can be fun !! its all in ur attitude !!if u decide to have fun coem what may then u will have fun even if u are in the desert :D am i right ? ya def i am ... and may be when u dontahve many options probably u try to have the best of the companions !! could be that u will get to interact more with the ppl around u ... when u have a lot of options u donno what to decide on !! may be just thinking positive ;) what say ? he he

Aise hi kuch !! And in the end it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. -- Abraham Lincoln The best way to cheer yourself is to cheer somebody else up. -- Mark Twain

Coffeeeeeeeee ... hmm the very thought of coffee makes me feel fresh !! am i addicted ? naaaaaaaaaah !! coz addiction is something without which u cant stay !! u feel uncomfortable without having that but then i dont feel anything like that !!so i guess (n also i hope :)) that i am not addicted !! he he !! so coming back to the topic ... COffee ... dont know just felt like writing something about this drink which refreshes me most of the times i drink !! and the refreshment is the maximum when i have mom made filter coffee !! :) ..but then roz roz nahi miltha woh :( ..but then its ok !! anyways i jsut love coffee ...n i donno why !! during my PUC days whenever we used to go out all my friends used to have soft drinks after eating soemthing n mine was fixed ...Coffee !! they used to be like ... not again !! Even in the hot sun i dont mind !! Many of my friends used to scare me telling that i will get addicted to that and also it contains harful some stuff n all that but thatnever stopp...

Missing all my friends a lot .... feeling so bad !! Remembering all my friends right from ... school days ... college days and my work friends ... those were the days !!! had some one or the other with me ... never alone ... and now here i am most of the time all alone ... but thanks to the advanced science !! communication is so easier now a days !! am always with phone ... always trying to be in touch with my near n dear friends !! and trying to reduce the physical distance between us !! hmmm

e-Mails ....Initially when i was in school we used to keep in touch with our near n dear ones thru letters ... especially post cards .. coz we were too young then .. then came inland letters ... by then in urban areas telephone was already the major means of communication ....... i remember writing letters to my friends posting them and expecting a reply from them ... i wud be so happy to receive the reply that i wud reply to them also immediately .... then i went to hostel where there was only one phone for around 500 girls :( n so there were 2 options either i call my parents ( that too we didnt have a phone at home then ...so call up our neighbour .... :( ) or write letters .... as our hostel dead line was 6.30 it wud b difficult for me to call up even once a week ... so i chose to write to them ... i got a huge stock of inland letters n kept in my room ... i wud write to my dad every alternative day and he wud also reply back ... so i wud have atleast 2 letters in a week ... a...

July 7th 2005 , I was sooooooooo happy .. u know why ? coz i gt to know that i wud be sooon meeting all my dear n near friends ..... :) ...n it was the right time for me to go there coz ... joy coming back from onsite .... n jk leaving to Ireland :)I was all set for an exciting one months stay with them ...i was sooo excited .... went there one day before i was supposed to join office ...i had lovely time there ... one month of non stop fun masti and unlimited talks ... woow ... guess ise kehthe hain dosti aur dosti ke faayde !! little did i know that i wud get another wonderful 10 days with them ,,, but then guess bhagwaan was more karunamayi n he gave that tooo.... hmm ..so i had soem more fun ..some more sentiments ...some more discussions and not to forget some mroe treats tooo .... :) ..but amidst all this JK left to his trip ...so me started getting the sympotoms of "missing friends" syndrome ... it started just before a week of my departure from that place ... :( ...i...