Transformation
She loved junk food … never entered kitchen … made a fuss to eat Mom made meals …
Now she cooks exotic dishes 3-4 times a day .. hardly eats out … and tries not to waste the left overs
She threw her own clothes all over the place .. and expected them to be washed and pressed when she wanted them next…
Now she makes it a point to keep things in place … see to it they was washed and pressed …
She Loved shopping and hardly worried about what it costed …
Now she thinks twice before buying anything …
She hated going to functions and her mom begged – pleaded to accompany her for some functions
And now she has to attend some functions cos she represents the Family … and that’s how its supposed to be
She woke up only at 10-11 on weekends and did nothing but laze around ..
Now whole weekend she is busy with cleaning laundry and groceries ….
She wasn’t restricted to return back home early …
Now its yearns to be back home by 6.30 – 7 ….
She used to be with friends all the time …
now She hardly finds time for friends
She wore livein jeans, Nike shoes and matching beeded accessories …carried Gucci bag …
She was the style icon …
Now she wears Mis match salwars, flat “aunty”chappals with loads of gold ornaments …
Shes forgotten what “Style” means…
She travelled in the local bus in which she wud be squeezed … swaying from one end to other when bus turned … fellow passengers falling on her when it breaked… but still full of life after getting down…
Now she travels only in AC buses … Cars and still complains of tiredness
She listened to pop songs on her Ipod …and danced …
Now she is surrounded by all kinds of devotional songs …
………I try talking to her … about what changed her so much and she keeps numb …
Its like she wants to tell me lots of things but something’s holding her back !!
I ask her are u happy … she says …I have a Bungalow ..i have a car … and caring husband and a Kid…what more do I want …
I don’t get the answer to what I asked ….
I ask her again … "but are u happy?"
She asks …" what do u mean by “are u happy”…
I told u I have all that’s required for a happy life"
I tell…”that’s the point …u have everything u can be happy with but then Are u actually happy?"
Tears Trickle down her eyes …..
Her silence told a lot of things …
Now she cooks exotic dishes 3-4 times a day .. hardly eats out … and tries not to waste the left overs
She threw her own clothes all over the place .. and expected them to be washed and pressed when she wanted them next…
Now she makes it a point to keep things in place … see to it they was washed and pressed …
She Loved shopping and hardly worried about what it costed …
Now she thinks twice before buying anything …
She hated going to functions and her mom begged – pleaded to accompany her for some functions
And now she has to attend some functions cos she represents the Family … and that’s how its supposed to be
She woke up only at 10-11 on weekends and did nothing but laze around ..
Now whole weekend she is busy with cleaning laundry and groceries ….
She wasn’t restricted to return back home early …
Now its yearns to be back home by 6.30 – 7 ….
She used to be with friends all the time …
now She hardly finds time for friends
She wore livein jeans, Nike shoes and matching beeded accessories …carried Gucci bag …
She was the style icon …
Now she wears Mis match salwars, flat “aunty”chappals with loads of gold ornaments …
Shes forgotten what “Style” means…
She travelled in the local bus in which she wud be squeezed … swaying from one end to other when bus turned … fellow passengers falling on her when it breaked… but still full of life after getting down…
Now she travels only in AC buses … Cars and still complains of tiredness
She listened to pop songs on her Ipod …and danced …
Now she is surrounded by all kinds of devotional songs …
………I try talking to her … about what changed her so much and she keeps numb …
Its like she wants to tell me lots of things but something’s holding her back !!
I ask her are u happy … she says …I have a Bungalow ..i have a car … and caring husband and a Kid…what more do I want …
I don’t get the answer to what I asked ….
I ask her again … "but are u happy?"
She asks …" what do u mean by “are u happy”…
I told u I have all that’s required for a happy life"
I tell…”that’s the point …u have everything u can be happy with but then Are u actually happy?"
Tears Trickle down her eyes …..
Her silence told a lot of things …
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