Silence Kills ..................... :(

Always wonder …whats the worst treatment one can receive when one is at a wrong end …..

Ya … I got it ….Be silent !!!!

That’s the worst treatment …just don’t tell anything … keep silent …. And the silence creates and uneasiness ..Man that uneasiness is killing … U ask the person … whats wrong …reply u get is “ nothing’s wrong !”

“ Then why are you silent ? “ …. “ just like that !! “ ….

Now the silence leaves you wonder what could be wrong !! whats happened ?? and whats behind the person’s silence …

You think 100s of things what could have happened … or what could have triggered the silence …

N here you go suddenly u realise that something what you told would have hurt the person !! now that words spoken cant be taken back u tend to ask is it whats hurt the other person …. Noooooo just no response ….

You really donno what to do ….
You are scraed to tell anything to that person coz that person might get offended again !! now what do u do … u also go into a semi silent mode …. And here is what happens … the silence has created a barrier ………. Which cant be crossed …..

The whole thing is in a mess ….

So may be even if u remain silent at the beginning then later you should speak up so that u don’t tend to spoil the relation with that person …. Isn’t it ??? may be I am right !! As always !! J

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