Theres a saying in kannada which says "Noolinanthe seere ...thaayiyanthe magalu" ..which means the sareee would be just like the thread from which its made ...similarly daughter will be just like mom ... now am starting to wonder if its true ... might just be ... firstly cos ... tho daughter is always dads pet ... they do talk a lot to mom tooooo ...and then as the saying goes ..moms the first teacher ... so may be ... she does become the role model in many ways ... have seen many cases where in ... u see the daughter and u can make out how her mom is !!!! if moms clean freak daughter picks it up too .. similar way if mom's messy .. daughter is messy too ... and the attitude as well is passed on to the daughter ... ... still wondering if i shud accept this proverb or not !!!!
City life .... most of them feel that its a prestige to stay in the cities !! when i was young i used to stay in a colony ..this was in the middle of the jungle with aorund 200-250 houses ...the whole place was like a well knit family ... most of them knew most of the people and the happenings in theire lives ... lots of get togethers wud be happening ,.. i still remember my mom and aunties of the colony excahnging the dishes what they prepare .... the share whatever special they have prepared with atleast a couple of them ... then we kids playing together with no fear of getting run over by speeding vehicles ... sit out in the cool breeze whenever there wud b power cuts ... (which used to be atleast half an hour a day ) ..... try to make a garden in the smallest available space in the back yard .... wait for the flower to bloom in the plant we planted .... enjoy each and eevry festival with full enthusiasm irrespective of the region we wud be from ....etc etc ... then the time started...
Cheating ..corruption everywhere ... how do i make out whats real and whats fake ? i go on road ... see people in rags / needy .. but then not sure ..if they are really needy ... Shud i help?? i dont and i feel guilty .... u go to the shop... buy fruits ... come home and c half of them r rotten ... some stranger knocks the door .. asks for some water ...ppl open the door and next thing u hear is they have been beaten up and robbed of all their valuables ... U make friends with someone ... share wholeheartedly whatever u hv ..no negetive thoughts ..but the person is using u to get somehting done .. U trust someone cos of their soft nature ..sweet talks and sometime down the line u realise they r just buttering u to give them all ur posestions and slowly moving away .. so how can u trust someone? how wud u know if u r gonna be hurt later on ... or ur posessions wud be snatched away ???
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