Words Unsaid...Random Thoughts.. Memories and Experiences

mere khayal mein dosti ek aisa rishta jo har rishtey se nirala hai...friendship plays an important role in everyone's life .... frineds do manage to infulence our lives... some in positive way and some in negetive way too ... but then tehy do have a strong influence on our lives, .... they give a helping hand when in need ... listen to u patiently when u have stories to tell ... have fun with u when u are in a mood for fun ... share the food u want to try out though it wud be bad !! and also compliment u when u least expect :) u be urself with them .... no barriers n no hesitation toooo ... u can just tell out whatever u feel like .... u get some feed back too as to what can be done regarding that .... u can rely upon them any time of the day ... jitna bhi bolo utna kam hai actually ... waise dekhne jao tho they are far far better than many of ur relatives who pretend to be close to u when u r happy n run away when u need them or ask 4 some help .....Friendship lives forever .........

City life .... most of them feel that its a prestige to stay in the cities !! when i was young i used to stay in a colony ..this was in the middle of the jungle with aorund 200-250 houses ...the whole place was like a well knit family ... most of them knew most of the people and the happenings in theire lives ... lots of get togethers wud be happening ,.. i still remember my mom and aunties of the colony excahnging the dishes what they prepare .... the share whatever special they have prepared with atleast a couple of them ... then we kids playing together with no fear of getting run over by speeding vehicles ... sit out in the cool breeze whenever there wud b power cuts ... (which used to be atleast half an hour a day ) ..... try to make a garden in the smallest available space in the back yard .... wait for the flower to bloom in the plant we planted .... enjoy each and eevry festival with full enthusiasm irrespective of the region we wud be from ....etc etc ... then the time started...

Howz it Staying without ur dear ones around!! · Coffee without sugar · Cake without sugar n icing · Pheeka dal · Newspaper without interesting articles · A bland greeting without colors…. · Black n white tv pe chitrahaar · Chats that aren’t chatpati · Ekta kapoors soaps without ladies in jhig mig sarees and accessories · Bollywood films without heroin telling senti dialogues · Lonely puppy separated from its offsprings · Soggy chips · Starless Sky on a clear night · Weekend party without music !! Etc etc

"Life is like having a cup of tea. You sit by the side of the window, lift the cup and take a careless sip, only to realize, somebody forgot to put the sugar. Too lazy to go for it you somehow struggle through the sugarless cup....till you discover undissolved sugar crystal sitting at the bottom... ---That's LIFE " How true !!!

Thoughts to ponder .... How many times have we felt that we are good for nothing ... or may be we are useless ... we are a waste ... dharti pe bhoj etc etc .. The count will be almost equal to the number of stars in the sky cloudless nite.. Y is that we feel down at times ... is it coz we feel guilty that we haven't done our best though we had the ability to do or is it that we are not keeping the expectations of others or is it that we are not satisfied with ourselves !!...sigh .. there are so many reasons for us to feel down !! It all depends on our priorities !! but then such thoughts can be so disastrous at times ,...... lease harm done is mental disturbance ... with a lot of inferiority complex added to the previously existing ones .... n the maximum harm is end of life :( ... the in between depth of impact of these thoughts include bad very very bad thoughts ...withdrawing oneself from everything ...hesiatate to publicise ... hate to discuss anything about self .. drift away ...

Love :)

Thinks that make u go eeeeeks and iiiiiisssssssssshhhhhhh... A flying cockroach A slimy worm creeking noise when a metal chair is pulled Open deep wound ... Some one serving food with dirty hands Travelling in a crowded bus with no space to breathe Ur favourite eatable falling down when u wanted to have the first bite muddy water splashed by a vehicle on ur white dress Rotten tomato power failure when ur watching ur fav show or listening to ur fav song totally messed up bed when u r feeling veryyy tired and sleepy getting a worm in ur food etc etc ,....many more got left out :D