Words Unsaid...Random Thoughts.. Memories and Experiences

Date : 27-28 May 2017  Start : Bangalore  Destination : Ooty [Hairpin curve 10] Kmts Covered : 276 kmts Stay : LEOPARD ROCK WILDERNESS RESORT Group - 4 [Me, JK , KM and HR] MoT : RE :) I was cribbing that long time we went out ..so we should get out somewhere for the weekend .. And finally JK gave in to my pestering on Wednesday and our lovely friends KM and HR were also ready to join us.. Initial plan was to visit Masinagudi [we were all tempted after hearing  so much of praising from KM about the place he stayed ..The Monarch] .. Unfortunately our two attempts to book resorts in Masinagudi failed with KM being on calls with GoIbibo and Yatra to get the refund done ... all places were S*** expensive and Booked ... we were looking at the last moment i.e. a day before the trip and realised it was also the last weekend before the Schools re-opened and so it was obvious everyone wanted to get out !! Friday eve and we still didnt have a place to stay ... we then sta...

Been king since I wrote something ... high time .. i start documenting our Journeys together !! A test blog to see if i have the right access !!

ಓಹ್ ಇದು ಒಳ್ಳೆಯದು ... ಇನ್ನು ಕನ್ನಡದಲ್ಲಿ ಸಹ ನಮ್ಮ ಭಾವನೆಗಳನ್ನು ವ್ಯಕ್ತ ಪಡಿಸಬಹುದು ... ಕನ್ನಡ ರಾಜ್ಯೋತ್ಸವದ ತಿಂಗಳಲ್ಲಿ ನನ್ನ ಮೊದಲ ಬರಹ ಕನ್ನಡದಲ್ಲಿ ... :)

Theres a saying in kannada which says "Noolinanthe seere ...thaayiyanthe magalu" ..which means the sareee would be just like the thread from which its made ...similarly daughter will be just like mom ... now am starting to wonder if its true ... might just be ... firstly cos ... tho daughter is always dads pet ... they do talk a lot to mom tooooo ...and then as the saying goes ..moms the first teacher ... so may be ... she does become the role model in many ways ... have seen many cases where in ... u see the daughter and u can make out how her mom is !!!! if moms clean freak daughter picks it up too .. similar way if mom's messy .. daughter is messy too ... and the attitude as well is passed on to the daughter ... ... still wondering if i shud accept this proverb or not !!!!

How nice would it be to be free of all obligations and ties !!!! less worries ..... full tu bindaas ... mite b good right? just do what u feel like ... be how u want to ... everything is "what u want" ....

I keep wondering ... when i see/hear ppl cursing each other ... do they really work ? Why are ppl so scared about being cursed then ???

Cheating ..corruption everywhere ... how do i make out whats real and whats fake ? i go on road ... see people in rags / needy .. but then not sure ..if they are really needy ... Shud i help?? i dont and i feel guilty .... u go to the shop... buy fruits ... come home and c half of them r rotten ... some stranger knocks the door .. asks for some water ...ppl open the door and next thing u hear is they have been beaten up and robbed of all their valuables ... U make friends with someone ... share wholeheartedly whatever u hv ..no negetive thoughts ..but the person is using u to get somehting done .. U trust someone cos of their soft nature ..sweet talks and sometime down the line u realise they r just buttering u to give them all ur posestions and slowly moving away .. so how can u trust someone? how wud u know if u r gonna be hurt later on ... or ur posessions wud be snatched away ???

Donnno what it is ... dont think its jealousy cos its not like she wants to be like them ... nor she envys them ... but then def somethings wrong ..she's not pleased ..or isnt open to conversations.. can disappointment with self be linked to jealousy ??

I have been thinking from few days ... and its bugging me ... and whats eating my head is ... Is staying in a place/house permanently good or moving around is better? may both have their own plus and minuses ... but hvnet been able to point out one better than other may be .. But in some ways staying in same place mite give u strong bonding with ppl around ..but moving around also does giv u a chance to meet new ppl and make friends !! :)

In School… It used to be like a rough sheet to do some calculations … Or wipe away the extra ink from the hand Used even to whiten the Rubber (“eraser” as it is called) ….or sharpen the pencil led Or just take a divider and draw circles just-for-fun A tool used for Punishment – “Stand up on the bench” ;) A dining table during lunch break … A Pillow when u want to cry or are sad/angry … A support to sleep … And also used to read/write In colleges …. It would tell Love stories of the past and the present … “A loves R” carved inside a heart …or “raj on the tail of arrow pointing to Rani …arrow passing thru the heart” which would symbolically represents Raj Loves Rani… Would also be the pointers to know the who belongs to which group of friends … or movie names …or dialogues … That’s the source of gossips about who-likes-whom kinds …or who’s called the “chamcha”,”pakao”,”chaalu” etc etc A canvas for the artists …. To draw all kinds of faces …flowers designs … A meeting table when frien...

Groom’s is a computer geek Brides born and brought up in village … Groom loves wearing Dhothi-Kurtha Brides a Fashion Freak … Groom Motu Motu … Bride’s Size Zero … Groom hardly talks … Bride doesn’t stop talking … He is shy and timid .. And she is called “bold and beautiful” He Loves home made food … She eats out atleast once in 2 days … He likes to stay indoors Shes a party animal … She’s a spendthrift …. He is very calculative even when buying a pound of bread He talks very fluent English … She knows only limited words She loves getting drenched in rain … and enjoys dancing in rain He starts sneezing when its raining outside … He hates the sight of cats and Dogs …. She loves them more than human beings .. He doesn’t drink tea coffee … She’s a tea/coffee addict .. He doesn’t believe in god , pooja etc … She goes to temple every Tuesday and fasts on few occasions … For him festival is good food and holiday For her festival means get together with other family members , do all the r...

Christmas weekend ….. One of the quickest , completely unplanned n economic trips I went for …. 3 of us decided we got to go somewhere for a trip … as it was long time since we went out and I wanted to get out of the City … So we decided to go for a short trip due to constraints like … one wasn’t free the next day .. and then we got to get back soon the day we go also ..etc etc … We decided to start around 8ish but ended up starting at 10 … We decided to meet at Kengeri which is on the way … It was lunch time by then and I hadn’t had my breakfast so tummy was growling … … so we had lunch there in a small but clean hotel … Full meals … started feeling sleepy but then … Then we started to Ramnagar … peak Sunny … Took a ksrtc bus … Reached ramnagar in 45 mins or so … then got some gnyaan from a fellow passenger along with the info that we had crossed our stop and we wud have to walk … So we got down n started walking walking … Close to 2 kmts to the stop where we were supposed to get down...

She loved junk food … never entered kitchen … made a fuss to eat Mom made meals … Now she cooks exotic dishes 3-4 times a day .. hardly eats out … and tries not to waste the left overs She threw her own clothes all over the place .. and expected them to be washed and pressed when she wanted them next… Now she makes it a point to keep things in place … see to it they was washed and pressed … She Loved shopping and hardly worried about what it costed … Now she thinks twice before buying anything … She hated going to functions and her mom begged – pleaded to accompany her for some functions And now she has to attend some functions cos she represents the Family … and that’s how its supposed to be She woke up only at 10-11 on weekends and did nothing but laze around .. Now whole weekend she is busy with cleaning laundry and groceries …. She wasn’t restricted to return back home early … Now its yearns to be back home by 6.30 – 7 …. She used to be with friends all the time … now She ha...

When Harry Met Sally "I love that you get cold when it's seventy degrees out. I love that it takes you an hour and a half to order a sandwich. I love that you get a little crinkle above your nose when you're looking at me like I'm nuts. I love that after I spend a day with you I can still smell your perfume on my clothes, and I love that you are the last person I want to talk to before I go to sleep at night. And it's not because I'm lonely, and it's not because it's New Year's Eve. I came here tonight because when you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible." Notting Hill "I am just a girl standing in front of a boy asking him to love her." "Happiness isn't happiness without a violin-playing goat." Forest Gump: My Mama always said, 'Life was like a box of chocolates; you never know what you're gonna get.' When Harry Met Sally...

To be surrounded by friends ... have a nice chat ..long hours ... get togethers ... laughs ..discussions... suggestions ... etc etc To get a call unexpectedly from someone whom u wud love to talk ..... Sleep well .... have a peaceful sleep without horrbile dreamz or any disturbances and then when u wake up in morning ... get to know that u can sleep for 2 more hours .... Rains ... get drenched ... play in water ... feels good If u r in foul mood or angry or irritated ...then also it helps ...cooling u down Have A pet who would be with u all the time .. and whom u can cuddle with .. Sigh ..wish i cud have one ... may be some time ... Wake up and a nice cup of coffee or chai comes to ur hand ... and u can enjoy that cup of coffee or chai taking ur own sweet time .. dont hv to hurry up When u get some lovely flowers ... unexpectadly... Ofcourse if u get them often then it becomes a routine ... n Many more to be added to the list shall add them when i find time ......

"I love walking in the rain, 'cause then no-one knows I'm crying"

No Occasssion ... No reason to celebrate .... Nothing good happening ... My be thats y i need to Cheer up myself ... with something ... So here it is ..cheers to me ....

one of the good movies i watched ... off late ... 3 characters ...each one a kind of his own ... 1st one : takes the whole blame on him whether he has done it or not ... feels too guilty and feels that only when he takes punishment .. its like "prayashchit" for him ... 2nd one : feels that he has not done anything wrong and is cnfident that he wud be saved as truth always wins ... he feels he is walking in right path ..so nothing can go wrong with him .... 3rd one : inspite of doing mistakes feeels there is always a escape route ... and never loses hope ... eternal optimistic ... that somehow he wud escape ... 3 totally diff characters ... intersting ...

I read a story recently about ..a man who got locked in a cold storage room ... he tried reaching people ..yelled cried made noises but then no one came ... as the cold storage was away from normal working zone ... Also it was the weekend and so ... no one wud be around ... he tried all he could to draw attention of people present if any ..but nothing happened .. he gave up then he sat thinking about his death ... he started feeling cold ...he wrote on the walls .. about his state ... he started feeling more cold ..he wrote that too he started shivering ... every moment he kept feeling he is nearing to death ... after sometime he felt he is getting frozen and so .. he wudnt be abel to write further ..so he wrote on wall that these cud be his last words ... N then he finaly died ... when the door was opened people found that he was dead ...they all read what he had written ... But u know what the Truth is?? the refrigerating system had broken down a couple of days back and it was not w...

Again i get to meet a new set of people .... Few instances ... about few people .... which i just cant get refrain from mentioning .... Person 1 : Gossip ...gossip.... gossip complain complain complain those are the only 2 things which this person does ... "are yaar woh pata hai ... kitna kaam deta hai" "woh pata hai ..kaisa khana khata hai" "kitna spend karta hai" "baap re aap kitne kanjoos ho" n wants to poke nose in everybodzs affairs ... just cant stand without screaming at this one may be .... Person 2 : Me myself and my work me wud ask u only if i have anything to ask no faaltu talks and all Sorry Am Busy.......... Person 3 : Its all about me ... u dont understand .. what i am going thru .. its soo bad work wise also... outside work ... am basically suffering ... so I go on telling everyone ... my stories so that i get some sympathy .. n sympathy keeps me going ... Also need to take care to see that am in the good books ofright people so d...